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A revolutionary new approach to preventing divorce in our community | Eli Goldbaum

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Meaningful People

An interview with Eli Goldbaum on preventing divorce and promoting peaceful resolutions in the Orthodox Jewish community.

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Why are we seeing such an uptick in divorces? A lot of people don't understand the fundamentals of what is a marriage. What we've seen is an uptick of people that are not committed to marriage. Some of these people are growing up in the lap of luxury, running throughout the world and whatnot. These kids never got the word no said to them. They used to getting everything and they're living a very high life and then all of a sudden marriage comes to reality, you know, and now all of a sudden you don't necessarily have the same access to money. When you're the same access to money. When you're dealing with those challenges, if people don't know how to deal with the challenges, they just say, "You know what? I'm out." Hello everybody and welcome back to another episode of Meaningful People Podcast. This Tisha B'Av, which is just a couple of days away, an amazing, amazing new film is coming out by the one and only Reb Yoel Gold. The title of that film is Coming Home. We all are yearning to go home to Eretz Yisrael. We want our hostages to come home. We want the entire Klal Yisrael to come home back to Yiddishkeit. And that's what this film is all about. Reb Gold puts in so much

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  1. 0:00Why are we seeing such an uptick in divorces? A lot of people don't understand the…
  2. 6:07disclaimer before I we start. We're going to be talking about some very uh difficult topics…
  3. 11:44have a small fire, I take a fire extinguisher and I put it out. If it's…
  4. 17:26like you said, the mindfulness that it requires to realize that when you are talking about…
  5. 23:06ideas. And they're looking for something different beyond um the lifestyles that are okay to speak…
  6. 30:48focused on the love languages. And it I realized that not her love language is words…
  7. 35:55language and you get activated by receiving gifts, your default is just going to try to…
  8. 42:07you have for newly newly weds, guys who are maybe were engaged right now, being that…
  9. 48:45that are mind-blowing when you look at every single line of the of the agreement. Um…
  10. 55:23said before, what's my focus? Shalom bayis or shalom divorce? If you have an agreement in…

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