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(516) Deep TP: Revealing the TRUTH about kids in CRISIS! (Hebrew ST) לגבי ילדים במשבר! לְגַלוֹת האמת

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Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting

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the kids today are not physically ill and they're not spiritually ill and they're not intellectually ill they're not asked children they are very smart the part that breaks from trauma and abuse of child childhood trauma is emotional part of their brain that they can deal now when they start to show the problem of emotional cancer and the shark start to show you what does it shark start to show you what does it look like it looks like I don't want to go to school it looks like they're not helping out they acting strange they're acting rebellious so what are what a parents do they start to argue and they start to fight and then it goes on and on and on and on the whole spiral and it's coming from a Irish it's coming from a place there's a piece of their brain not the intellectual part there's a piece of their brain you know the muscle in the brain right it's broken and now they have F MRIs it's broken and now they have F MRIs that can actually show it and they can deal with pressure and they can't deal with stress and they have triggers and therefore they're acting what does it look like dysfunctional it looks like rebellious lazy selfish that's what it looks like so almost everybody in the world argues fights pushes gets angry gets frustrated at this behavior and then they never really get to see what you did here brilliantly mama sh t P

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  1. 0:01the kids today are not physically ill and they're not spiritually ill and they're not intellectually
  2. 2:04taking her on vacation dedicating your whole life to her and she's cursing you and nothing
  3. 4:09ever happen that you can see the Makela the piece of your child that's broken is
  4. 6:15his room is a pigsty we can't live like that he refuses to shower and he's
  5. 8:18she's a gem so look what happens all of a sudden a year or two later
  6. 10:23your human okay but if someone says you know let's say you had the wherewithal to
  7. 12:25to parents the reason it doesn't work is because they don't know what the problem is
  8. 14:27people have so much pain we can't understand that but what I do see is her
  9. 16:33can't we just say this is an unbelievable neshama a sensitive super sweet incredible - ishyama
  10. 18:34proving that when we say every Jew right everyone says it every year there's a K

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