The Kossoner Rebbe shlyt"a (555)

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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[music] >> As we were talking with Avi when he was at my house talking over the whole situation, I told Avi, unfortunately, through the years I've also came across so many cases from all walks of life, all neighborhoods. Interesting enough, sometimes it happens that people come to me asking from Flatbush, they don't want to go into their own neighborhood or in their own their own neighborhood or in their own neighborhood where everybody knows them. So, they came to me. Like one channel or another channel, they came over all the way to me. I even had people from Williamsburg, from Monsey, and from Monroe coming to me for the same reason. They want to go somewhere far from where they are. Of course, we're talking about practically all the same kind of issues. practically all the same kind of issues. Children over the derech, dropouts, all kinds of boys and girls not knowing the reason what triggered it, why it happened, and so on. So, of course, there's no klal in this. Everybody has a different issue, different story, different backgrounds, and you can't know always what's going behind some every story. But from what what came out, as Avi himself told me and I've gathered from my own experience, it comes out very my own experience, it comes out very many times that the sorry story is for some many untold, never never being told, never being spoken out reasons, which of course we all understand that kids, both boys and girls, have a hard time talking about. And that is if they have been either mamish molested, either just plain played around with when they were young kids before the age when they knew what all this is this is all about.

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1. 0:01[music] >> As we were talking with Avi when he was at my house talking over…
2. 5:06There's a damage in the mind. This person told me that if you take a MRI…
3. 10:49happened 5-6 years after Hassana and the young woman went berserk. Just didn't know what from…
4. 15:54busted by different way, different stage, different year and they still can't talk about it. So,…
5. 21:29through the Yeshiva's that was called for the reason that they found that there is in…
6. 27:06where to go. And that got him into this. Fortunately enough, by this story it ended…
7. 32:10fool you. Well, if she's talking when she was the rabbi said, "I'm asking you we…
8. 37:44Then I got the message. And I turned my life around. I was I'm quoting him…
9. 42:50Well, there's no general answer for every case is different, but there's one thing that you…
10. 48:25We've learned all of that, but the way the rav described it is is very enlightening…

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