IMPORTANT: 9478 Dealing with darkness - for us and our children

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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] there's so much anxiety and there's so much pain there's so many people struggling not just the kids who are struggling which is crazy amount of struggles crazy amount of kids struggling but even adults and I'm always shocked and I'm always in so much pain this person is worried about having children this person has children he's worried about this one and this one is it seems like people are walking around with so much and each time it really pains me and as it should and it really like it kind of surprises me now I was learning the Siva Shalom and he's talking about Shem being connected to Hashem feeling connected Hashem and in that mimer he says and when you're not connected to Hashem then you're living in a world of sadness and pain and when he said that it just hit me and I'm an American boy born kid right and and these words did not sit well with me and I really spent a lot of time I guess I have too much time on my hands not really but I've been spending years with these words percolating besides for Vegas it's a world of of sadness and pain why and and I think that this is a Kiddush to me it was and I think that the more we think about it the more layers there are to the core of the issue of so much I think that in America we grew up differently than in any period of time since the same because from the qurban base of English of Galos until America life was terrible the best life was terrible people had children and buried a lot of them kids didn't make it bearing children was like a norm people were poor people went to bed hungry

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1. 0:00[Music] there's so much anxiety and there's so much pain there's so many people struggling not…
2. 6:23you know 100 years ago when I was a kid you got a lollipop if it…
3. 12:39Chavez is guess what Hashem did not give us Shabbos to rest Hashem didn't say I'm…
4. 19:06my separatus by saying by Hulu says because if you didn't save we don't keep Shabbos…
5. 25:33won a wonderful life he gets whisked away and he has servants and he could just…
6. 31:51are you doing this to me everybody everybody gets very angry at Hashem when they're in…
7. 38:12but we have what to cling on to and Hashem when we are saying or we…
8. 44:33they're not going to be able to hold on to it this is the curriculum Rabbi…
9. 50:54it's like treat the body it's like a it's like a um like a fake you…
10. 57:24somehow I find personally in my experience of life that people who have physical illness cry…

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