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Rebbetzin Rivka Slatkin--What to do When Your Marriage Dream Doesn't Turn Out as Planned

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global initiative to stop divorce she has helped numerous couples restore their marriage and rediscover love again that is so beautiful please tell us more about yourself and what you do sure so that i am so honored to be here vera thank you so much um thank you uh i guess and i started um the marriage restoration project i would say 15 16 years ago after our own marriage our 20-year marriage started having problems right in the beginning um so we went on and decided to get some so we went on and decided to get some help from an amazing imago therapist and we had both heard about imago therapy at two different times i was like out of shape omaha and he was talking to someone else and like it was really great that we had heard about it at the same time so we decided to explore and it saved our marriage in like the very first session so um so our our restoration project is it's saying stop divorce that must have been an old tagline i was very excited about it in the beginning and of course some it in the beginning and of course some cases people make the decision to ultimately divorce but we would love to be able to help promote consciousness and awareness about what really conflict is all about and how we view it as an opportunity for connection rather as a sign that you marry the wrong person so wow that's fascinating that's fascinating we're going to dive right into this topic i did i did just that yes yes thank you um you do such incredible work helping

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  1. 0:32global initiative to stop divorce she has helped numerous couples restore their marriage and rediscover love
  2. 3:03work out like what's cluttering up the space between if you can imagine like my husband
  3. 5:35might think right right um you know this is very true and you know what i
  4. 8:10brings out from tanach and parsha and and the holidays about how it correlates to imagos
  5. 10:44one person is nervous to go out the other person's ready and totally ready to go
  6. 13:15and reawakened you know they want everyone around them to be inspired and reawakened and they
  7. 15:50and i'm kind of like oh is this gonna change everything i've already done or i
  8. 18:23healthy or exercising just different conversation starter questions and your husband may answer questions differently than
  9. 20:56finally did um and i'm so glad we did because that's what put us on this
  10. 23:32if maybe you can share with us maybe an anecdote or two either about from your

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