9248 ACCEPTING THE DIFFICULT NISAYON (CHIZUK FOR PARENTS!)

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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] everybody had plans that we're going to have a kid and the kid is going to be healthy and froome and give us and hashem had other plans so there is a grieving stage for every single person in this room when your child left the path that you wanted and left many times the path that anybody would want into drugs or cutting or suicidal behavior and just not being stable not being functioning so there's a lot of grieving to go on but there's also a lot of khizuk because we have a lot of success and we have people in the room that they'll be talking about kids who everyone gave up on there's a kid who the parents gave me send me a picture today this kid when they threw him out of home the rov that they were going to the rabbi that they were going through supposedly very harsh if a guy said your son is not worth your time to say to hillam for him don't waste your time dabbling remember don't waste your which is mind-boggling and that kid now is briscopayus and he's going to the mirror so when we talk about grieving i don't like the word because we only grieve something when it's you know when when they're gone as long as a person is alive khal's manchester united as long as somebody's alive then their their potential is is there

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1. 0:00[Music] everybody had plans that we're going to have a kid and the kid is going…
2. 2:38and as you said hashem has a sense of humor and hashem you know he has…
3. 5:12are the crazy families with the dogs because you're trying to save your kids lives and…
4. 7:48be with you angolas says right even even though we caused we caused the base to…
5. 10:57oh not in jail i'm sorry wanted for the attempted murder of his father that's the…
6. 13:35level you lose your kid i know it's uncomfortable but it's so beautiful and you know…
7. 16:06dream before the turn of the century 1980 you would ask somebody do you know what's…
8. 19:12we have parents crying tears i built a house of kedusha i don't want to put…
9. 21:51everything you're doing is so right because it's so hard and at the minimum every time…
10. 24:36fantastic person has many froome kids in kyle and and the works and and wonderful target…

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