Rabbi Yaakov Yosef Reinman discusses the meaning behind the bar-mitzvah tradition and the parsha's curses.
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welcome today we're going to learn uh pasha's kisaway so passion kisaway starts with the bikurim that you bring the first fruits you bring it to the base of mgdosh and then you say avidui that means you told you express uh you thanked the rubenstone for everything he gave you you start with uh before with the history and then if you have the land and you have the you have the produce and you thank them you thank the rubinitialism so it says like this for mate love then you come to the cayenne and you say to him russians were marty love she ain't not coffee toife you tell the rabona show them that you're not in great that look i'm coming i'm thanking and everything and not an ingrate why does rashi express it in a negative way why doesn't you say you say to him he said to the good that look i'm grateful i'm coming to express my gratitude shall we make it if i have a course of life on why you saying you're not you know you don't you're not an ingrate so i'd like to when i come to bar mitzvah there's a certain speech that i give by memphis i have to give it rosha and this is a rush that i usually give assuming that it's a different crowd if it's the same crowd then i try to avoid saying the same thing but this is what i like to say i say like this that this shabbos this last shabbos or the next shop is whatever then this shabbos uh the father the bar mitzvah boy got up in shul and he said i thanked rubenslam that he passed me that until now i was responsible for everything that this boy did and i had to i had to pay for it you know and and
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