What Shadchanim Actually Think (But Never Say)

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1. 0:00Everyone's favorite topic. Who built the system? >> It evolved by itself. >> Ah, come on.…
2. 7:27different organizations and then Kesha that I worked for is just having and that's just trying…
3. 13:42rebby some lady quoted they quoted even a lady in something that said it's now everyone…
4. 18:55>> That's a crazy stat. >> Yeah. Yeah. I I don't want to say both. I…
5. 24:38years. >> I never really I never really understood the whole learning for a year or…
6. 31:36they could do like unless a guy becomes handicapped and he can't give his money. So…
7. 38:00you're tipping the the the the waiters. >> Does that come out to does that come…
8. 45:18are you saying that you think that someone who reads a should have should have a…
9. 51:02weekend together? >> It's it's a great idea. >> Like you >> it's a great idea.…
10. 56:20>> No. Like if you're like very shy, >> right? So I do. You want something?…

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