What Shadchanim Actually Think (But Never Say)

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Everyone's favorite topic. Who built the system? >> It evolved by itself. >> Ah, come on. That's not a good If there's one thing that magic wand you can change and it would adapt across the spectrum of the entire system, [music] what would it be? >> Personally, I'm not a big fan of speed dating. It took 3 hours. I made it into 6 minutes. I think that you're hurting a lot of the girls and a lot of the boys. It messes up your brain. I'll tell you one thing which I think has to change dramatically. A good from working boy [music] should be accepted as you're getting not just a guy that's second class. You're getting a first rate guy [music] that's working. It eats me up. inside cuz I see how the stigma makes a Never ever pay full price again. Download the PZ Deals app right now on your phone. The next time you're about to make a purchase, maybe from, I don't know, Amazon, you're going to head to the PZ Deals app and you're going to get the best prices. Yes, you can save 20, 30, 40, maybe 50% on certain items. Why would you pay full price? Well, you don't have to when you have the PZ deals app. So, download that right now. This episode, guys, is everyone's favorite topic. and me and get into it big time deep into the weeds of this topic. Are people

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1. 0:00Everyone's favorite topic. Who built the system? >> It evolved by itself. >> Ah, come on.…
2. 6:33>> Yeah, I guess they weren't siblings. I guess I hope Rabbi Luenstein made sure [laughter]…
3. 12:36a three-hour first date. It could we switch that? I think it could be switched. But…
4. 18:09>> There's different parts of Lakewood. [laughter] I'm saying like in terms of the the world.…
5. 23:48guy that's working. I'm not talking about I'm talking about a girl that's on the fence,…
6. 30:58how the stigma makes a difference at a boy who's not doing too much all day…
7. 36:34>> That's actually a pretty solid idea like the should be tied to how much is…
8. 43:44doing for Kalistra is absolutely unbelievable. I don't know if you've ever been to one of…
9. 49:51a certain type of like there's I find this in the I found that Khanim don't…
10. 55:27and they don't teach the boy the science behind the dating. So most boys I give…

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