Why I Tip The Valet Guy - R' Joey Haber

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One time I was standing outside of a wedding and waiting for the valet to come and get my car. And there were a few valet guys there and I said to them, "What's a normal tip?" And we were talking about tips. >> [music] >> One conversation every single wedding I've gone to since then. They are the valet people and every single wedding they treat me like I'm a hero. They'll keep my car up front like a hero. Just because I noticed [music] that they were there. Recently a friend of mine shared with me a very similar story. He was at a wedding and the waiters and he was talking to the waiters complimenting was talking to the waiters complimenting them saying, you know, you did a wonderful job. The caterer, the person in charge said, "What made you say that?" He said, "They're doing a beautiful job. They're only being paid a few dollars an hour. I thought it'd be nice to give them a compliment." The head caterer says, "Let me tell you a story." He says, "I was just at an event and [music] the speaker there was a doctor. He was the head forensic examiner for people after suicide. The biggest place of suicide in the world is the Golden [music] Gate Bridge, California. And I was examining someone who passed away because they committed

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3. 1:08who passed away because they committed suicide. And then as part of the examination I went…
4. 1:39walk into a shul and no one shakes their hand, no one gives them [music] the…
5. 2:10people, I listen, I watch, I do, every single time it matters, and every single time…

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