Rabbi Benzion Shafier - Secrets To A Successful Marriage

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[Music] okay um first of all ladies and gentlemen how often do you go out much each and every night once a week who said once a week based on your advice your wife isn't true I'm finished I don't see another word that's it he wins really okay and how long has it been and how is your marriage 13 years 13 years married and you've been going out now for two weeks I see okay okay good okay I'm gonna try to do so that reverb and I'm gonna okay I'd like to share with you this evening something that I'm gonna compete this is it this is the reason why I have for the reason why marriage is a toast today because this device will destroy your marriage it'll destroy your parenting it'll destroy your showing by on this device is a pink holdin off have you ever seen that an off switch mine used to say goodbye when I shut up could I trouble you to shut her off is that possible I get by one couple is not a joke at one couple it took me months to convince him to go out months months they finally agreed to go out and I this was the condition that could mean no phones no smartphone so after they went out I asked the fellow hell was it and his answer was it was a I said what do you mean why well and she had the BlackBerry do you know the BlackBerry the old Blackberry she figured out a way to reconnect it so she could text her friends on the day look it's anyway don't don't don't okay I'm very uncomfortable with this

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