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A discussion on the importance of recognizing and improving our patience for personal growth.
A 17 min mussar & chizuk shiur by Charlie Harary. Like every video on Lehallel, it was judged and approved under the Lehallel law before it ever appeared — no unreviewed result is ever shown.
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The opening of this shiur, in Charlie Harary’s own words— taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.
[Music] okay good morning everybody everybody is well happy tuesday for those of you live happy whatever day it is a week for you thanks so much for joining us talking about growth resolutions how to make this year the year that it actually works we actually change i'm having i'm having deja vu moments of the show maybe like nine months ago when we talked about this a little bit maybe a year ago yesterday we just discussed this concept called patience even when we say patients we don't mean patients right you ever find yourself checking emails and like on your phone and like it's taking a few minutes for the mail to come in you're getting frustrated you forget this is a great one you ready one you ready do you ever text somebody on whatsapp or whatsapp somebody on whatsapp i guess whatsapp's a verb now and you and you see the checks you see the bluejacks and like it goes through and you're like why aren't they responding you ever have that you you whatsapp somebody you see bluejacks so they read your whatsapp but they're not responding and you're like what is going on here i see they read my stuff not dawning on us for one second that not dawning on us for one second that yeah they may be doing something else there's an immediacy of i need you now you should be responding to me now i don't i can't even imagine that you have what else going on immediately patience one of the greatest blocks to change is patience believe it or not it's not discipline you have a lot more discipline than you
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- 0:08[Music] okay good morning everybody everybody is well happy tuesday for those of you live happy…
- 1:40not dawning on us for one second that yeah they may be doing something else there's…
- 3:1180. you may have adhd or you may not but it's like a thing to say…
- 4:42have self-diagnosed yourself with add or know somebody who else self-diagnosed themselves baby i bet you…
- 6:45it comes to like our kids we think we're like super patient when it comes to…
- 8:16ourselves with our patients and think that and stop thinking that we're so patient and that…
- 9:50right if you are now going to learn a subject if that's your you know resolution…
- 11:55we're doing a spiritual practice and you're mapping it your mind is mapping it this time…
- 13:27life like assuming you you're we're following the rules here but what happens is that in…
- 15:02so the beginning of something what you know is exciting because it's new and maybe if…
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- Mussar & Chizuk — 17 min, by Charlie Harary
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