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A lesson on understanding the deeper motivations behind setting goals for personal growth.
A 17 min mussar & chizuk shiur by Charlie Harary. Like every video on Lehallel, it was judged and approved under the Lehallel law before it ever appeared — no unreviewed result is ever shown.


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The opening of this shiur, in Charlie Harary’s own words— taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.
[Music] okay everybody welcome back to the show hope you're great hope you're having a wonderful day we've been talking about this idea of resolutions trying to get into that space get underneath it stop well i want wanna i don't wanna run through it i really don't wanna throw it i don't wanna run through with like some like you know get you little like yes you can yes you can let's do it and then like we move on to like something else let's just get underneath it let's get let's get it done this year yes you can yes you can yes you can let's get it done slowly resolutions they don't work why because you can't go up against your brain unless you're super prepared not super motivated notice i didn't say that there's a misnomer that you know motivation can do anything it's not true this concept of like a motivational speaker can like change come on it doesn't work that way motivation can only do a little bit it can get you going think of motivation like the er room of a hospital it it's it's necessary if you need the golf ball in the er but like you can't live in the er even the stuff they use in the er is probably not good for you every day in your life so motivation is good zig ziglar one said motivation is like showering you gotta do it every single day but you can't live your life expecting to use motivation to drive your goals it doesn't work at some point you become you go back to your life at some point you you you go back to your baseline
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- 0:08[Music] okay everybody welcome back to the show hope you're great hope you're having a wonderful…
- 1:40even the stuff they use in the er is probably not good for you every day…
- 3:11that in your mind you make a value judgment and you say the thought that i…
- 4:44than the thought of sleeping the extra hour if you thought for a second that missing…
- 6:17in two weeks and if you don't train you're not gonna make it you get up…
- 8:22want to want to write my book i want to connect to the divine i want…
- 9:56that really want to want to get great grades in school but they can't find a…
- 11:33and as a result not achieving our next level growth which is exactly what we tell…
- 13:10to choose comfort over greatness i don't want to just do the same five resolutions i…
- 14:40when we start to identify the things that we really should be doing and we start…
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- Mussar & Chizuk — 17 min, by Charlie Harary
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