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We need to think about our identity as a powerful source that is flexible and adaptable.
A 13 min mussar & chizuk shiur by Charlie Harary. Like every video on Lehallel, it was judged and approved under the Lehallel law before it ever appeared — no unreviewed result is ever shown.


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The opening of this shiur, in Charlie Harary’s own words— taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.
[Music] okay good morning everybody happy tuesday for those that are joining us live happy whatever day it is thanks for joining us on the booth today's a special day today we are dedicating the episode in memory of a great man named greg fox christian moshiacco of ben and mariosa the trips that we run to israel with you know hundreds of guys you know thousands over the past few years have are dedicated um to greg was an incredible individual um i have the honor of knowing his sister pamela and the stories that she tells me about him and told me about who he was his humility his his grace his ability to touch people's lives from really every level of society it was it's just an honor to be connected a lot of what we're talking about here about being humble and and seeing past identity and what were we doing here really greg embodied and um it's been an honor really i've had the the good fortune of going to um to st louis these past few years and being able to speak live for his family and um we're really just honored to be connected to him so it's stronger chavanalia and we look forward to uh you know only seeing good things for the entire fox clayman family um talked yesterday about this idea of identity it's so important think of identity like a garment that you put on it's okay you you're allowed to have an identity you're allowed to put on a garment you're allowed to be the professional you're allowed to be the father you'll have to be the parent you're allowed to be the person you want to be just know that it's an identity like just don't get confused don't think that's who you are don't think that your life is this thing it's so critical
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- 0:08[Music] okay good morning everybody happy tuesday for those that are joining us live happy whatever…
- 1:11and seeing past identity and what were we doing here really greg embodied and um it's…
- 2:42college football program now i happened to be a big football fan and i was like…
- 3:43of football players every year how many make it to the nfl how many make it…
- 5:16goes to the next level and gets into high school and all the games and all…
- 6:50games and people know you and there's a lot you don't drop off the map you…
- 7:52that is highlighted in this area is the challenge of identity if you let the football…
- 9:26pain that people go through especially young people not necessarily tied into that they don't have…
- 10:27moms that are watching because as those kids get older and they need you less at…
- 11:58that what i do is just a garment that i hang up in a closet who…
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- Mussar & Chizuk — 13 min, by Charlie Harary
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