About this shiur
A discussion on building healthy relationships through open communication and care in marriage.
A 2 min hashkafa shiur by Yaakov Lemmer. Like every video on Lehallel, it was judged and approved under the Lehallel law before it ever appeared — no unreviewed result is ever shown.
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The opening of this shiur, in Yaakov Lemmer’s own words— taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.
I said officer, if you could please have a little bit of mercy, >> [music] >> I'm actually on my way to New York for my wedding. So he looked one more time at my license and he said, "23 and you're getting married? Now you've made your second mistake. We live in a world where thinking about the other is not that common. And were Zoka to live as part of Klal Yisrael, where that is part and parcel of the core of our identity. >> A chassan and kallah can [music] get on the phone every single night for those that um from the chassidishe
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- 0:00I said officer, if you could please have a little bit of mercy, >> [music] >>…
- 0:31for those that um from the chassidishe community, that's all shomer Shabbos people we're talking about.…
- 1:03means to validate, empathize, and truly [music] hear the feelings of the other. And only after…
- 1:33their spine. >> That word is vulnerability. >> Nothing scary about being vulnerable. It's usually the…
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