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Discussion on guarding the mind against external negativity to protect from others' negativity.
A 20 min mussar & chizuk shiur by Charlie Harary. Like every video on Lehallel, it was judged and approved under the Lehallel law before it ever appeared — no unreviewed result is ever shown.


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The opening of this shiur, in Charlie Harary’s own words— taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.
okay good morning everybody hope everybody is well happy monday thank god it's monday tgim everyone's having a great weekend ah thank you so much for joining today on the boost whatever day it is that you joined thank you so much for joining this is a great opportunity another week we move now into the week of september which means the phone was i mean the fun's it's fun to grow right but i guess for those who are like living in school calendar world since you were a kid or you have kids like september is like back to school back to life i was younger i used to hate september now i love it because there's a certain purposefulness to beginnings this is the beginning the beginning of a new school year beginning of new opportunities hopefully for those that are in these states with like you know kids going back and you're just hoping that everything goes back to somewhat normal or forward to greatness so thanks so much for watching and tuning in and i hope that we get a little better every single day so yesterday we spoke about for those that are um for those that are that are that heard yesterday's show we spoke about this story of the rabbi who was walking down the street and someone to exit him and as opposed to getting upset he gave him a blessing so yesterday my mom who's wonderful who's listening wrote
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- 0:00okay good morning everybody hope everybody is well happy monday thank god it's monday tgim everyone's…
- 2:04there is a disconnect there is a chasm between circumstance and feeling and i want to…
- 4:10game or they like play to us if we lose a game not like it's not…
- 6:11to to fail and so now they need to always be winning to feel good because…
- 8:14we gonna spend our time so of course you gotta live in the world of course…
- 10:19i have to work on myself to enhance my internal aspect of myself so that i…
- 12:21than the person who brought the negativity say that again because we're gonna have to unpack…
- 14:25if i'm mad at somebody i have no problem allowing that anger to fester in my…
- 16:26next year you allow yourself to have uh a less of a good time when they're…
- 18:32it's like unbelievable you see the wrong thing and they're blown out you can't even have…
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- Mussar & Chizuk — 20 min, by Charlie Harary
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