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Charlie Harary discusses the importance of maintaining spiritual energy and purpose.
A 15 min mussar & chizuk shiur by Charlie Harary. Like every video on Lehallel, it was judged and approved under the Lehallel law before it ever appeared — no unreviewed result is ever shown.


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The opening of this shiur, in Charlie Harary’s own words— taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.
[Music] okay good morning everybody hope everybody is well happy thursday hope everyone's doing well following up on yesterday's conversation trying to understand where this desire comes from and how to satisfy it right what ends up happening to many of us is as we go through life we convert spiritual desires into physical goals we achieve our goals or some of our goals don't get the depth of the satisfaction from those goals and then really just drop the actions we thought we'd get something and we don't we just drop it i thought if i would do this she would respond if i would do this he would like me if i would do this they would grow up in a certain way if i would do this god would give me stuff i had this conversation with a rabbi yesterday how many of us are raised in a world that if you do this god gives you this and if you don't do this god doesn't do that like it's sort of a very easily understood quid pro quo quid pro quo world and so people grew up in religious communities and in religious environments and thinking like well i did this for god he should give me this like they're like they're like horse trading with god so even their spiritual stuff is really just physical like they're not really interested in a relationship with god they're interested in god hooking them up with something so they become more religious or more spiritual because they want to get something from god so there's like this inner desire that their soul has to create something deeper with god and manifest says let me see what i can get from him
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- 0:08[Music] okay good morning everybody hope everybody is well happy thursday hope everyone's doing well following…
- 1:39trading with god so even their spiritual stuff is really just physical like they're not really…
- 3:11did you ever why would you ever do this and some of the reasoning is because…
- 4:43you now open yourself to start to change your relationship to the action you're not thinking…
- 6:15that's better than any others i can tell you when i go to work they're all…
- 7:46feedback that you get and you you're not upset because you want to the impact already…
- 9:19life we hope for a good impact we hope for the market to appreciate our actions…
- 10:50that's what changes the impact that you want starts to become your own spiritual evolution you…
- 12:23than i was two three years ago i'm really gentler i'm really more gracious i am…
- 13:58it's locked in forever because it's not about the outside world and then we start to…
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- Mussar & Chizuk — 15 min, by Charlie Harary
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