Daily Boost Ep 390: When Feeling Stifles Thinking

What’s said in this shiur

The opening of this shiur, in Charlie Harary’s own words— taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] okay good morning everybody everybody is well another day another opportunity to get a little bit better at least a try i've been talking about this idea of feelings what it does to us we don't even appreciate just how much we act based on how we feel how much our minds how much our minds are trying to protect us from feeling bad and so as a result we do things think things act in ways that are really feelings driven without even realizing it we're talking yesterday to an individual are you talking about this idea that many times in life when you are in charge of something some of the ideas that you need to put into place to make things better you don't think about because you know that you'll have to do it if you're running a business and you know that there are changes you have to make but you also know that you have nobody that you can rely on so making the change will require making the change will require you doing more work which will make you feel overwhelmed your brain will block the idea from even rooting in your mind and when you ask someone for advice and they give you the idea you're like yeah i knew that but you didn't you thought you did because it was intuitive and it was right under the surface but you didn't really know that because as your brain started to contemplate as your brain started to contemplate doing that idea it started to anticipate feeling overwhelmed and then you blocked it and when someone else brings it up it feels like it's right but but for the person bringing it up you never would have done it or you never really would have thought of it because what's happening is the anticipation of feelings in some ways is even blocking

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1. 0:05[Music] okay good morning everybody everybody is well another day another opportunity to get a little…
2. 1:40making the change will require you doing more work which will make you feel overwhelmed your…
3. 3:14and imagine as if you are without constrains like take it on off site take your…
4. 4:52we're gonna have to do it ourselves and we don't have the bandwidth to handle that…
5. 6:27once i get up there i'm gonna be a wreck trust me i'll be a wreck…
6. 7:59so let's begin and i want to identify two areas where we can work on two…
7. 9:32maybe a year ago andy would know i know if andy's watching or listening but you…
8. 11:38with me to daytona a projector it's crazy so i put the thing in it was…
9. 13:13on a film and if that film would stop running the images would disappear and if…
10. 14:47something so we can delve into the spirituality of it that's part of how we're being…

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