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Discussion on how judging others based on body language burns energy and is often irrelevant.
A 21 min mussar & chizuk shiur by Charlie Harary. Like every video on Lehallel, it was judged and approved under the Lehallel law before it ever appeared — no unreviewed result is ever shown.


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The opening of this shiur, in Charlie Harary’s own words— taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.
okay good morning everybody happy wednesday those are here live thank you and for those that are watching on demand thank you for watching them man whatever day you tune in thanks so much i've been talking about this idea of projecting negativity it was a big deal i can tell by the comments and the emails yesterday um that that this is something that a lot of us go through every day especially if you're like a sensitive person there are people that are like totally out to lunch sometimes i wonder if they have like easier lives i feel like you're oblivious you know those people that walk into a room say things that are totally offensive and like they're what but that's what that's what he what he looks like why shouldn't he tuck in like i'm talking about like totally and you'd be like no no no no you see that person he's actually a human being like you can't just say whatever's in your mind you know those guys or women usually when they get older people like but that's okay because i guess at a certain age i think the filter just sort of like comes out you know what i'm talking about i think like there's like having harry david the larry david like there's like a type of person called the larry davids and like you go to like i think at some age the whole filter thing just drops like grandma you can't say that you know what i'm talking about they're people that have it when they're born they just never develop the filter but for the people that are out there that have like a filter and they're sensitive people and they pick up on things and like they sort of can sense a room like you know that that's a double-edged sword
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- 0:00okay good morning everybody happy wednesday those are here live thank you and for those that…
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- 4:05vomiting and tells them it's going to reduce vomiting now you not only have a belief…
- 6:08to think to try to figure out what's in your head i just can't not that…
- 8:08in their heads mostly getting it wrong even when we get it right getting it half…
- 10:11is totally thrown by this guy i'm like what is this guy's problem maybe it's me…
- 12:11is the whole world about us if someone's in a bad mood does it have to…
- 14:13rabbi the rabbi had brought in four guys from a small city that i don't think…
- 16:20popular opinion is your family or your friends or the people that are in front of…
- 18:22emotionally trying to please every single human being that we need we're going to spend our…
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- Mussar & Chizuk — 21 min, by Charlie Harary
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