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Shimmy & Hadassa Manela share their journey of infertility, resilience, and inspiring others through Bonei Olam Florida.
A 1h 9m chizuk shiur by Rabbi Yitzchak Breitowitz. Like every video on Lehallel, it was judged and approved under the Lehallel law before it ever appeared — no unreviewed result is ever shown.


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The opening of this shiur, in Living Lchaim’s own words— taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.
we went right through jumped right into the Journey of infertility right we from a like newly married like all excited and then into like getting into the whole Crux of infertility which is a crazy crazy journey and she CLS up she like hi is this so and so and I'm like yeah like I just want to announce that it was a successful transfer and you have a baby now right oh you know good luck and then they like we want to see you in a couple of days come in we want to start monitoring to start monitoring and yes I was like it was a crazy wave of emotion I guess a couple hours later she was on the couch and she's like sh I still haven't felt the baby move like she started drinking something grape juice and still haven't felt anything so then we called we called I think we called atella we called 911 and we just like we just rushed to the hospital to the ER and everything after that was literally like a blur started trying again and it just kept failing so we did like we did give up a lot we totally gave up there were points where we looked at each other I think after our third Iva procedure and that didn't work
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- 0:00we went right through jumped right into the Journey of infertility right we from a like…
- 6:10very nervous and he wasn't yeah just a little bit on two different wavelengths which is…
- 11:49at the time it was horrible for me yeah I didn't I didn't realize what I…
- 17:31not a nurse not so bad like they they like yeah this is expect you to…
- 23:37to you know her Clinic over there and our Clinic whatever and then she had a…
- 30:47pushed in my wheelchair out without a baby and then I got home I had ordered…
- 36:26publicized it I went public after because people were driving me crazy everybody would look at…
- 42:32already prepping for it like yeah a year Well year we signing the contract a year…
- 49:44organizations they're all amazing right and like I mean looking back to us like if we…
- 55:18like even for me like why like why are you having such a bad day something…
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