What Your Wife Really Needs | Shovavim Special ft. Aaron Zakowski

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The opening of this shiur, in Shtark Tank’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

What our wives generally need, what women generally need is this idea of safety, right? They need financial safety, they need physical safety, and they need emotional safety. And as men, it's our job to be able to provide all those fors. Now, men often say like they they appreciate hearing the reminder that our value as Jewish men, as husbands and as fathers, doesn't come from a paycheck. I I speak with a lot of men and when I start, you know, gently drilling down to, you know, what what are men's biggest challenges and struggles, it usually comes down to, you know, pranasa, right? The the struggles know, pranasa, right? The the struggles to earn enough money and financial and things. >> Shalom and welcome to Stark Tank. Shark Tank is a podcast about the challenges and opportunities of being a bentora in the workforce. This week we start the period of chauvin which is traditionally in some circles meant to focus on kaduca, what it means to be a man, relationship between a man and a woman. And I don't really come from those exact circles, but it's never a bad time to refocus and relearn and re understand what our role is as husbands, as fathers, and as men in a very challenging world. And I'm so excited to have Aaron Zakowski, who is a marriage coach and has done a lot of research and

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1. 0:00What our wives generally need, what women generally need is this idea of safety, right? They…
2. 4:35and do it a little bit more practically for people. >> Amazing. So let's start with…
3. 8:42to do that that to to understand like am I in the right career right first…
4. 12:44really the only reason we should need it right giving saddaka helping our community all those…
5. 16:48out of an ill intention from his wife, but she's also overwhelmed. So, I think understanding…
6. 20:53the marriage is always important, but you start to see how well you did it once…
7. 24:58ourselves by again sometimes it's just stop and and breathe deep a little bit and sometimes…
8. 29:04solutions. So when our wife tells us such and such happened today and I'm really upset…
9. 33:08and we've learned mostly the of important right maybe we've gotten a little bit of anatomy…
10. 37:14user and really it's but they can go years and decades you know not fulfilling themselves…

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