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The Chumrah of Being Meikel — A Radical Approach to Unity 03 18 2026

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Rabbi Yoel Plutchok

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Okay. So, so last time we spoke about the the sugra and we spoke about like I guess the macar of the minig the development of the minig theists that that are much more m people that are make on it um some of the shilas some of the individuals etc. Now we we mentioned obviously in passing that there it's it's a you know a contentious mic that could often lead to to you know fighting amongst couples families etc. and we we briefly discussed some of the and we we briefly discussed some of the shas um what's interesting actually is that I came across a troop from where he handles a couple as follows the woman was from family and the husband was from family who was not on when they got married the husband said he really wants you know his mother's recipes he wants pes to which his wife said sure I'll make you whatever that you want but I'm not going to eat from the gros I'm not going to actually eat from it partake in it and the husband felt like that was something something was off about that it didn't you know it didn't suit him right and he wanted to force his wife

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  1. 0:00Okay. So, so last time we spoke about the the sugra and we spoke about like
  2. 2:32they didn't eat kabs and he wanted to know what to do when he joins his
  3. 5:06it exists these various exist now what I really want to talk about today was a
  4. 7:40and this is as well this true is brought. So there is a some sort of
  5. 10:46if you're being on it looks like you're considering this this thing or this to be
  6. 13:19that is brought down in many different is from that idea that is to to in
  7. 16:01missing not missing seems to be a relatively later minig I don't know who the kilo
  8. 19:25So then he tells the sharing a meal together is the best way to come close.
  9. 22:04I saw this in the as well. He brings it down I think and he brings
  10. 24:39even if even if they use minimal products they're buying things from the outside how does

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