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You're Accidentally Making Your Child MORE Defiant

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Rabbi Shais Taub

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  1. 0:00Yes, our first caller is on. >> just jump in. >> Welcome Rivka. >> Okay. Hello.…
  2. 1:02exacerbate it, feed into it? Can we talk about that? I bet you have some answers…
  3. 2:35a dad thing? >> Um >> Can you give me examples? Can you Just just riff…
  4. 4:07indulge a child. We're trying >> hope. >> Oh. Talk to me about that. >> That…
  5. 5:39feeling life and death panic, dread, alarm bells ringing about getting that candy because their their…
  6. 7:10then that could be a method that we'd employ. Okay, so there there are are circumstances…
  7. 8:11So, what would be the opposite of that? Under these circumstances. >> Yeah. Give her something…
  8. 9:43cuz every child is different. So, you have one child who yeah, distractibility. You just sometimes…
  9. 11:14Marines. You got to improvise. Um yeah. Any other methods that might be helpful? You spoke…
  10. 12:49uh resolve the situation. And again, it depends on the kid and it depends on the…

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