Why Is It My Problem If You're In a Bad Mood (Kav Hayashar Ch 10)

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yehoshua Zitron’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

Welcome everyone. Thank you all for joining us tonight. Tonight we are learning We're also ready for a flash for Miriam Bat Ratzel. Okay, so we're going to just jump right in. We're going to pull things from a lot of different uh sources uh you know today. Actually, mostly stories, but um you know, we're going to deal also very heavily in in psychology today. So, so bear with me. Now, have you ever had a conversation with someone and that other person is in a very bad mood or a very negative uh ne, you know, everything is just very negative. Everything is very bad. And you walked into that conversation, you know, like normal, like in a healthy emotional state, and then you walk away and you're like, "Wait a minute. Why am I in a bad mood? Like nothing happened to me." You just interacted with somebody else that was in a bad mood. And it and it almost like it it was contagious and it and you know it affected you even furthermore like sometimes you walk into a room and one person is in a bad mood in that room. No one said a word like nothing. There's like one person in a bad and everyone somehow feels it. Obviously some people are more sensitive to this than others but everyone somehow you know feels it. And before we try to explain this, uh, let me let me just bring out there was once a a poor person who would go very frequently to this wealthy uh to this

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1. 0:04Welcome everyone. Thank you all for joining us tonight. Tonight we are learning We're also ready…
2. 5:53we're doing something, our brain receives the feedback of our facial cues, of our voice, of…
3. 12:10wealthy uh the wealthy man's servant opens the door. He says, "Yes, can I help you?"…
4. 18:32not about giving that bouquet of flowers that's going to take up the entire dining room.…
5. 24:51actively inviting and that's really the like like a point but again we're not getting into…
6. 31:22groom responded. He says, "Can I at least say goodbye to my wife?" The groom, the…
7. 37:45in in your sim. But the point that I really want to focus on on this…
8. 44:02all of a sudden, the rabbi like like looks like his eyes will get widened and…
9. 50:21probably meant to borrow it and you probably meant to pay me back, but this is…
10. 57:10have an opportunity over here." Someone goes and starts yelling at you. Stop for a sec.…

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