This will CHANGE your CHILD FOREVER.

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shais Taub’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

what does this mean to honor the personality and the uniqueness of a child to actually value the fact that they have their own personality because in the old Paradigm if I'm your teacher or your parent and you're my student or my child and you have a personality that can be a problem that can be disruptive but in the new paradigm to the contrary I want you I want to bring you close to me I don't want to make you into something you're not I want you to be you and with all your unique talents and perspectives that Hashem gave you I want to teach you how to use those qualities in the best possible way that's what the Mak is all about it's about attracting people and instead of taking away their personality teaching them to be the best version of who they already are teaching them how to figure out what they're good at and be even better that's the new paradigm so what does this look like I tell you a story about the laav and a 19-year-old girl there's a book called guidance from the reab by Peter CMS from London England and again this is a Crown Heights crowd so I'm going to ask you have you guys ever seen that book yeah you ever noticed that the picture on the cover of the book is a drawing of the Reb yeah it's a drawing of the rebbe it's like purple colored yeah you know who drew that cover that picture that's on the cover the picture of the Deb was drawn by Peter cm's daughter Tanya she was an artist she drew that picture the second time she was in Yus when she was 19 years old the first time was when she was 16 and her father

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1. 0:00what does this mean to honor the personality and the uniqueness of a child to actually…
2. 2:06brought her into Yus and she had just finished the first year of a two-year program…
3. 4:49yet do you think that debba did option one do you think the rebba shut her…
4. 7:32kids they're going to do crazy things and so then what do we start doing we…
5. 9:37assumption that debba is assuming when the debba says if you young lady go to art…
6. 12:18what we're talking about right now and that is at at the end of the letter…
7. 15:00you have to be Torah observant the new paradigm is what do you think true personal…
8. 17:07well I'm not talking any further about this craziness but what did the debba do so…
9. 19:53she's ready to take the alternative like leave it alone but see that's that's fear-based that's…
10. 22:33suspicious of somebody you think that they have nefarious motives that you need to thwart and…

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