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How to Know When It’s Time to STOP Dating Someone - Rabbi Eli Deutsch

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How do you know when it's time to stop dating someone? If we're going to marry someone, we need a reason to marry them. We have to want to marry them. It's not like, okay, I'm going to keep dating them or keep looking to marry them if I'm not feeling too interested in them. So, so if it's becoming uh stale and dull and you're not interested, so then yeah, it's there's no there's no uh extra points for going out longer.

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  1. 0:01How do you know when it's time to stop dating someone? If we're going to marry…
  2. 0:31Um if conflict is continuously coming up, definitely it's something to think about ending it. And…
  3. 1:01over and over again, and you just find yourself like it's you're you're you're going out…
  4. 1:33then that's something else. Then we got to talk, right? But if you're someone who's um…

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