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Modesty. Saying Shalom, Gut Shabbos To a Woman

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Rabbi Shay Tahan

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hi Shalom when a man sees a woman in the street that he knows or vice versa can they say hello to each other thear says that and this is how one is not allowed to greet a woman ask her for how she's doing at all not even send regards through aak through a messenger or her husband so let's say you see somebody's uh wife and you tell him send regards to your wife tell her hello for me that's not permitted but the gar says that one is allowed to ask the husband how's your wife doing this will learn from theim that asked and from here the gor says that one is allowed to inquire about one's wife especially if she didn't feel good or so on that there's a concern but one should not send regards tell your wife hello for me because that brings people close together same thing with saying hello in the street or other places that brings people close together then it sticks in the head and it's not a healthy thing to do this would be so even on Shabbat according to

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  1. 0:01hi Shalom when a man sees a woman in the street that he knows or vice…
  2. 0:32regards through aak through a messenger or her husband so let's say you see somebody's uh…
  3. 1:03wife especially if she didn't feel good or so on that there's a concern but one…
  4. 1:35he writes that it's better to avoid although wishing somebody a wish that would be permitted…
  5. 2:05it's completely a but definitely if one was approach and the woman said to you good…
  6. 2:35just pass through them without saying gu chabis or saying hello such a thing is not…
  7. 3:06writes one is not allowed to to send regards and to ask a woman of how…
  8. 3:37to ask her do you need anything is everything okay something along those lines that you…
  9. 4:08two people that should not have such a friendly connection…

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