Marriage and Its Polarity effect on Human Being by Rabbi Yaakov Altman

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yitzchak Botton’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] okay today we're going to speak about an incredibly important topic this is probably one of the most important topics you can possibly imagine okay the topic is marriage extremely important today the state of marriage is not too good okay the state of the union is really not a good situation i would like to give you a few basic keys to make marriage much much much better okay this is just something obviously there's a lot to talk about in marriage but this is a very good start now if you first of all the following the quality of your life is the quality of your relationships the quality of your life is the quality of relationships if things are good with your intimate relationship which was your husband with your spouse then things are great if things are not good with him even if everything else is terrible even if anything else is good i would say right then life's not good right if everything's wonderful except with him life's not good if everything's terrible god forbid but with him things are good you can deal with anything very very straightforward it's extremely important and you know today the problem is that people are our marriage is basically breaking apart okay now i want to give you a few fundamental ideas let's start with the following there is a concept in uh there's a concept which is very important it's hard for us to understand because we are already speaking english when you speak english the word that's very similar to the real concept confuses you so for example if you tell somebody you can't do work on chavez right say okay we can't do work on

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1. 0:00[Music] okay today we're going to speak about an incredibly important topic this is probably one…
2. 4:06being otherwise wife by herself holds by himself separately half human beings are humans together now…
3. 8:16differences definitely so many major differences okay now what he wants the most is let's start…
4. 12:30sure in the same way that he did a little the daughter is not careful right…
5. 16:44up till now when someone hits him it's always on the outside this hit is on…
6. 20:49daughter fell down last week and her toe how's your toe doing like you know you…
7. 24:54dandelions off the front lawn he says here i got this for you like huh you're…
8. 29:05these days to feel like from his boss from his friends from from the environment that…
9. 33:12strongest warriors out there need their wives to sometimes be motherly i remember seeing some uh…
10. 37:20he's like all kinds of possibilities a man could have many children yeah a woman takes…

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