How to deal with difficult people and relationships by Gedale Fenster

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shalom Arush’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

morning good morning afternoon guys good night guys [Music] we're in la la land over here in florida so today's class also is booked over the show and world and inner peace we have about five or six books we're going to be addressing tonight strongly recommended books never get angry again david lieberman phenomenal book 13 habits mentally strong people don't do we're going to take a great book called wisdom and a few other books from the volcano et cetera on how to deal with difficult people and difficult relationships believe it or not this is one of the toughest things obviously to deal with people in different and deal with difficult relationships it's something god willing that thank god that i'm very familiar on and i've had a lot of advice from rob nachman you're going to have a whole different approach tonight because sometimes we think we're the only ones going through this i'm the only one with the dysfunctional family i'm the only one going through this problem i'm the only one this is a this is a very common thing that people say i'm the only one going through this how come i'm the only one and you think the whole world is perfect but nothing tells us right away get out of reality it tells us the whole world is full of strife right away he said this 250 years ago it says the whole world if you're moroccan ashkenazi once a cold war wants to wars it doesn't matter where you are who you are the whole world is full of strife there are conflicts between great powers there's conflict between

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1. 0:00morning good morning afternoon guys good night guys [Music] we're in la la land over here…
2. 6:27arguments and there's a difference between saying there's a problem in the relationship and the relationship…
3. 12:44the more blessing we get in heaven etc so recognize there's a price like we always…
4. 19:00how did i get to the personality part it's because i was not aware that my…
5. 25:11and give you mercy how he can't just give it to you to earn it right…
6. 31:27merciful that you get the more mercy you get in that situation so imagine forgiving somebody…
7. 37:47points azamara means a point a zama i will sing with the good that he has…
8. 44:04because this is what you're holding inside and you're just and this is what you're showing…
9. 50:18this one time and i'll tell you where i learned this lesson one time many years…
10. 56:34god will give you the words of what to say it's it's a concept of ruach…

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