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Pesach with your complex kid

1.1K views · Mar 26, 2026

Rabbi Shais Taub

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Uh welcome to the webinar. This is a free 1-hour webinar. Pesach prep for your complex kid or kids or yourself or your whole family. I'm honored again to be joined by Dr. Bass who I've partnered with in the past for this type of content. And uh it's been very meaningful to me to be involved in this world. Honestly, uh I'm I do not consider myself an expert. I have something to offer, but Dr. Bass is absolutely an expert. And uh I will I will say half of your praise only because it's in front of you. But uh >> [laughter] >> in the Jewish world, she's definitely one of the leaders of helping parents to manage better and even enjoy the parenting journey with complex kids. And it's a it's an honor to uh to be partnering with her for this uh for this free webinar. Okay, before we get into the real content, I want to launch a poll. We have here right here. Launch. All right. Can you see it on the on the screen? Does it pop up for people? Yep, I get it. Okay. So, we have here What is your biggest concern for Pesach? Make one choice. What one option is the Seder? Too long, too stimulating. Another option is changes in routine and environment. Another option is sibling dynamic {slash} family tension. Another option is food restrictions {slash} limited foods my child will eat on Pesach. Another option is managing my own stress from everything going on, meaning just in general.

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  1. 0:00Uh welcome to the webinar. This is a free 1-hour webinar. Pesach prep for your complex…
  2. 6:07And we're up to 60%. Should we give it another few seconds? All right. Now, we're…
  3. 12:14that. But at the end of the day, all we really can control are our own…
  4. 18:24It's about kind of figuring out what that child needs, but Pesach is not the time…
  5. 24:33otherwise it just derailed. Um does it need to be longer because you have to take…
  6. 30:402 weeks later, they'll probably tell you all the good things about the zoo, and they…
  7. 36:45especially your younger ones, are kind of like, "What are we doing today, Mommy?" Um and…
  8. 42:54So if you need a special heter for something, obviously ask ask your rov. But what…
  9. 48:57and on Shabbos and Rosh Chodesh and Yom Tov, four times a day, um I'm davening…
  10. 55:07to to feel differently about the whole situation. Yeah. Um, well, we'll send you some emails…

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