The Secret of Real Friendships: Can We Forgive Ourselves and Our Loved Ones for Being Imperfect?

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

but we're talking about a I think a worldrenown speaker would be an understatement and hopefully um his words will will come across and and benefit all of you I'd say for years to come because that's usually the impression of his douches. So, Rabbi Jacobs A few days ago, Hanik was talking to me about the event and he said, "You know, I would really want that you should begin speaking 11:30 in the morning, but it's 45 minutes. Huh? We argued about it. I don't know. We argued about it. I just told you I can't." So, we weren't really I said, "I can't." He said, "Well, you have a sheer like a good Jew." He wanted to know what I'm doing in the morning, you know, is it breakfast? You know, is it yoga? Is it Pilates? Is it a gym? Am I going to therapy? Am I what? I told him, "I can't. I could leave my house 11:30." He said, "Okay, we'll change things around. You'll speak 12:15." So, I arranged taxi should be there 11:25. So, I should be able to leave 11:30 and start speaking 12:15. And then I see I got a message from him as I'm ready to leave and he says you could no rush when an organizer writes no rush. It's very very strange like what's happening. In fact the last time I remember that I had actually an event

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1. 0:31but we're talking about a I think a worldrenown speaker would be an understatement and hopefully…
2. 6:27friendship, fragmentation. It's what I do with that. What do I do with that? Either my…
3. 12:58actually talking to this boy was inspiring because there was such a halo of light around…
4. 19:16perfect. Mama, papa, I have forgiven you for being imperfect. And I hope one day you'll…
5. 25:37weakness when you forget who you are, when you're broken, when you're impoverished because that is…
6. 31:56There's no schism. There's no split. There's no plymus and is you know the inner and…
7. 38:34nobody smiled. And he jumped. And he said, I thought to myself, if I would have…
8. 44:57years later but it has an impact beyond what anybody imagines Ysef would have never imagined…
9. 51:23Nobody else could. I said, "Ah, that's what mean when they say there's something that only…
10. 57:53and she sees a little basket and she wonders about it. And what does she do?…

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