How To Stay Happily Married

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yosef Mizrachi’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

My great friend Emmanuel Emil. As a Sometimes you have a you know person that has many listeners. Every once in a while one of them become his friend. So he became a good friend of mine. He always like to help. He always have the heart of a Jew the way it should be and I'm not surprised that all of you came to celebrate his birthday here. It's Rosh Chodesh also today was We have a good Chodesh b'ezrat Hashem. Amen. He asked me to speak about the life of the Jewish couple, families, families values. Why it's so important? Because when you see that there is a problem in a community you want to find the source of the problem and see how you can correct it before God forbid it can touch us also. Cuz if we see more and more families are broken, what's the point? Something is not right here. So maybe for the next half an hour I won't make a long lecture tonight cuz I know you came to celebrate a little bit. But for half an hour I'll speak bli neder. And I will try to cover everything for in 30 minutes. Problem number one today most of the young couples and some of you soon you will understand what I'm talking about when your children grow up and you have to marry them don't understand at all what marriage is. At all. They think marriage it's a boyfriend and a girlfriend who likes to move in together. Like in a secular world. But that's not the way it is. In a secular world, they move in together, they don't like each other after 2 or 3 months, they kick each other and they leave. No obligation. But when marriage it's the most important contract that a person sign in his entire life. More important than business, more

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1. 0:18My great friend Emmanuel Emil. As a Sometimes you have a you know person that has…
2. 4:01Because nobody prepared this young couple for what marriage is. What's the obligation of a man?…
3. 7:45me before I walked into the chuppah, they took me into a room and I signed…
4. 11:58week. One wife would want you four nights a week. But, this is an obligation. It's…
5. 15:43he's tzaddik, tzaddik yesh lo z'chuyot, he has merit, she's going to do everything for him…
6. 19:23problem whatsoever. From that moment on, he's not obligated to give her money. And she has…
7. 23:05million dollar. So, they say, "Why, you want us to lose now to sell the hotel…
8. 26:47When they gather together early morning, the rabbi was walking behind them and watching them that…
9. 31:02children that grow up violent, wonder their wives will catch from them. Why? Because they have…
10. 34:42definitely doesn't help the marriage. You want to drink, fine, up to the limit. If you…

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