The Secret of Parenting with Patience - Rabbi Zamir Cohen in English (AI)

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when it comes to raising children understanding boundaries is crucial sometimes a child may do something that deeply angers their parents leaving them feeling like they're losing control Rabbi WBY of blessed memory taught a profound lesson for these moments he asked when a parent yells screams or even resorts to hitting their child out of anger what's the real reason behind it if you ask a parent why they acted this way the common response is I'm disciplining them disciplining them but Rabbi WBY urged parents to look deeper into their hearts is this about discipline or is it about retaliation are you punishing your child because they disobeyed you or are you venting your frustration because they didn't listen to you this realization can be startling imagine an adult on the street disrespects you would you lash out physically likely not because societal Norms hold you back yet with a child who is vulnerable and dependent it becomes easier to act impulsively

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1. 0:00when it comes to raising children understanding boundaries is crucial sometimes a child may do something…
2. 0:30disciplining them but Rabbi WBY urged parents to look deeper into their hearts is this about…
3. 1:00becomes easier to act impulsively Rabbi wal emphasized that true discipline stems from thoughtfulness not from…
4. 1:30must not act on it in that moment acting in Anger leads to actions devoid of…
5. 2:00constructive for instance if a child lies or takes something that doesn't belong to them labeling…
6. 2:30scoffer lest they hate you rebuke a wise person and they will love you on the…
7. 3:00desire to improve by disciplining with thoughtfulness and care we raise children who feel valued respected…

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