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[Music] good evening everyone it was just my 30th anniversary married 30 years Baruch Hashem that is a big deal some of you are wondering I don't deal some of you are wondering I don't look like I'm 30 I a burqa Shem eight grandchildren yeah with more on the way does that there chef you want to know the trick I'll tell you the trick here's the trick ready lots and lots of sushi the raw not the cooked the raw ok matica not the cooked the raw ok matica not vegetable ok so when one is a short slot a brief slot one should not try to overshoot so I'm not going to I want one message to be given over and if I'm successful then you can go on eating and I will feel like I've accomplished something and it's really one word it is the word of the night if I have to have a word of the night super the night soup a word of the night super the night soup of the day word of the night and the word of the night is appreciation I want to speak with you tonight very briefly about how you should appreciate the person you are married to more than you appreciated them when you walked in that door now if I accomplish that I'm sure people will be happy but I want to start people will be happy but I want to start by saying that our relationship with our spouse mirrors our relationship with Hashem the reason that we just had a dish above was because our relationship with Hashem was lacking appreciation Hashem said you not appreciate a bit coming - so I'm gonna take it away you do not appreciate carbon oak so I'm gonna take it away you
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- 0:00[Music] good evening everyone it was just my 30th anniversary married 30 years Baruch Hashem that…
- 2:36carbon oak so I'm gonna take it away you don't appreciate each other so you have…
- 5:11value when you appreciate somebody you tell them you've got to tell you you intrinsically not…
- 7:45many more when we stop and we appreciate our spouse things change so the first thing…
- 10:26them hear you appreciate them so now listen up I want to give you a few…
- 13:32engaged when I was 19 she had just turned 17 that's the sorority and me know…
- 16:04understand this so she could have found five other guys you could have found five other…
- 18:39money it's a thousand bucks in cash I said it's in my pocket she says can…
- 21:17I said Shani one day I'm gonna pay you back and so a few years later…
- 23:54five minutes she's turned to me and she says I'm afraid to say I left it…
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