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well happy friday for those that are joining us live welcome if you're listening to this and any other way thank you so much it's friday which is phenomenal for so many reasons i can feel the weekend i can feel shabbat coming so thanks so much for those who who sent in questions thanks so much for the uh the kind words one of the best things that i got yesterday was a voice note from our very own andy boltax who many of you know who are with especially live is the magician behind the curtain he emailed me he left me a note saying yesterday for those who were listening to yesterday's show he spoke about social contracts planning for the future he texted me and said that um in the morning he's he had planned for himself to um give a donation to a charity that he hated if he would not get up half an hour earlier with the time he wanted to get up usually he snoozes the extra half hour i'm sure he's getting up super early anyways this is the example of great and greater he woke up this morning and the thought that he was going to give that dollar to that organization got him out of bed that's that's it it's worth it i'm ready to shut down this is a one minute show called well let's close it a day let's close it for the day let's go straight to the weekend
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- 0:00well happy friday for those that are joining us live welcome if you're listening to this…
- 2:05the morning out of bed ready to rock i'm gonna hit the snooze button come on…
- 4:13about this is this is an important distinction whenever we're thinking about the future it's so…
- 6:19comes back to us that's the moment where we plan and that's where we use the…
- 8:53are that you're working on in your life whatever in in things that you'd like to…
- 11:00relationship and they're going to feel like wait we just don't yell in this relationship it's…
- 13:08the class assigned for them they have to listen to their parent they have to do…
- 15:49right so i'm jogging i'm training my coach says you can hit this number with this…
- 17:57i'm not thinking i'm gonna nail it today i'm thinking i'm not going to know today…
- 20:05five more blocks my my family's waiting for me at mile 23 i'll see them there…
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