Relationships - Rebbetzin Avigial Gersht

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] yes I do know good question how do I know if the relationship is heading to a serious place or to a not serious place relationships do get into some just like people just sometimes like relationships kind of like have like they're like just not moving but first of all we spoke initially you weren't here for the second class was a pretty intense class but the moment touches involved all lines get blurred to be honest just because you don't really know because you can like totally not be you can totally can have such clarity that we don't have the same values you can have such clarity that like things don't like he's not the kind of he's not than me toes the the he doesn't have the mannerisms and the character traits that I want my children to have which is a good question to ask yourself I'd oven in might fellows might if he loves our parametric feel so I made my children marry someone like my husband you should ask your children you should ask yourself do you want your children to have the character traits of the sky I'm dating but back to what I was saying which is you can have everything not making sense and then eat so could you doesn't make sense and then you kiss or he gives you a really nice hug when you really need that hug or you do that thing whatever that thing is all lines get blurred it's not right it's not wrong it's reality unless one of you is gay then if the reality is the moment touched of all all the lines get blurred so it's harder to answer when when someone is not being shown an idea but we'll try first of all people I agree with thinning out people you usually know you can tell you know if you're

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1. 0:02[Music] yes I do know good question how do I know if the relationship is heading…
2. 3:08after a few months I'm just like what's next you know what I mean like like…
3. 6:50like it's not good as you say in Hebrew and Yiddish comes from there have you…
4. 10:31if I see them walking how can you tell walking they're not moving when I was…
5. 14:28before I've just cuz I means when your teacher said that you stole most them when…
6. 18:07maybe I'll spend the rest of my life with you and he said the guy got…
7. 21:16this intense hate for you but that emotion is still there you have these people who've…
8. 25:10father people you know friends that you up it happens a lot someone goes out with…
9. 28:56anyway look Scooby out later he did warp tour and he was signed to Warner Bros…
10. 32:41that's a great question do you maybe have mentors for any people 20 years experience but…

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