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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yisroel Roll’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

I had 2 weeks vacation coming and I said to my wife and I was Shalom I said, "Look, the vacation I need is going to be totally up away from all of these stresses. All right? I don't want to go sightseeing. I don't want to do anything. I want to sit in a room with the blinds closed, all right? And breathe for 2 weeks straight." So, we started looking as to where to go for vacation and each of the vacation for vacation and each of the vacation places were too busy. Somehow or other we ended up with Hot Springs, Arkansas. And uh Hot Springs, Arkansas, the Hot Springs is just a relic. They're the economy is based on horse racing. And the season begins February 15th. If you get there before February 15th, it's a ghost town. Well, we got there in December. The stores were boarded up. The stores were boarded up. All right? Nothing was moving. So, I said, "Oh, this is what I need." So, we checked into the hotel and um even then I had some back pains. So, I said, "While I'm here, I might as well take the miracle baths." So, on Monday morning the uh attendant takes us as me in into a little cubicle where there's a uh whirlpool bath and uh gives me two glasses of hot water to drink and this is not artificial hot

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