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Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier - 10 Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make @ BJX

1.1K views · Jul 17, 2022

Rabbi Shay Tahan

Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier discusses common mistakes in relationships.

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to roswell and now we're here and up in uh in the amazing brooklyn over here um this tonight's event is being presented by franzak bjx and i want to thank you also torah life um for our david baturo i'm gonna remind everyone about this amazing new book which rubber sheep is gonna speak about the last um part of it uh less mistakes that people the thumb is that uh really smart couples make um the book is available for purchase f [Music] person and virtually online and there's a tremendous um influence on helping jewish public schools to educate them through after school sunday school programs and then many different communities and then the last five years alone has helped transfer over one thousand two hundred children from public school yeshiva it's a tremendous accomplishment but everyone knows someone someone everyone knows someone was georgia public school like to transfer yeshiva or educate them in jewish education and it's our great great honor to call upon our vietnamese ahead of bjx and we upon our vietnamese ahead of bjx and we deserve our applause [Applause] everybody welcome welcome so happy to see you all so special so just a word about why we're here bgx is a house of love it's a house of avas israel loving every jew uniting and igniting the jewish soul and anybody that comes here feels loved and welcomed and that's what we're all here for that's our objective that's our mission as jewish people

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  1. 0:30to roswell and now we're here and up in uh in the amazing brooklyn over here
  2. 6:36going to repeat a little bit but we're going to continue so most of what we're
  3. 12:46him to visit my regular shoes itself and um you have to imagine that to my
  4. 18:54one honest person good has anything anyone in this room ever done anything dumb two three
  5. 24:54him to trial and he was sentenced to be electrocuted on his way to the electric
  6. 31:03and someone she respects as wow you look great by the way have you ever gone
  7. 36:36it's criticism you see smart couples work on love smart couples still make mistakes but criticism
  8. 42:42is it the nasty line no it's never the issue it's the feelings that were hurt
  9. 48:50no chris that's way bigger than that that's not friendship friends support each other even if
  10. 54:55spend a lot of time discussing the tools of bond hashem wants marriages to succeed and

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