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The Perfect Way to Give - How to Help Without Hurting AI

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Rabbi Zamir Cohen

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Let us contemplate today a wonderful piece of advice, guidance that King Solomon gives to a person who wishes to give, who wishes to bestow. Every human being, when born, is naturally a taker, not a giver. He does not initiate acts of giving to others. He only receives. He receives from his parents, from his surroundings. Part of a person's maturity is when he begins to change from one who takes to one who gives, to from one who takes to one who gives, to one who also provides for others. True human perfection is when a person feels, "My entire being exists only to give." Of course, by the nature of life, he also receives from others, from his wife, from friends, but his inner essence, his will, his yearning, his desire is to give. And when a person gives, he is granted great heavenly assistance. The verse says, "Charity saves from The verse says, "Charity saves from death." When a harsh decree stands over a person, even if he is unaware of it, and he gives charity, that charity can save him from death. But King Solomon teaches that one must know there is a condition to giving. One must know how to give. And this rule applies not only to charity, but also to marriage, to every form of giving, whether through money, through help, or through any act of kindness. or through any act of kindness. Let us read Solomon's words. "The ransom of a man's life is his wealth, but the poor hears no rebuke." Meaning, a person's wealth can serve as a ransom for his soul. If there is a harsh decree against him, and he gives charity from his money, it is as if he has given a ransom for his life, and through that act of giving, the decree is nullified. However, Solomon adds,

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  1. 0:00Let us contemplate today a wonderful piece of advice, guidance that King Solomon gives to a
  2. 4:37"I saw you yesterday or the day before, you helped your mother so much. You put
  3. 9:48"What is all this? Why such an extreme reaction? So, the poor man saw you. What's
  4. 14:56If you give with warmth and respect, so that the poor man does not hear rebuke,
  5. 20:01approval, or someone who works at city hall, a person comes asking for help with property
  6. 25:07should give a child a name of three letters or more so that its spiritual structure
  7. 29:44distorted, becomes the English fruit. Or shesh, six, and sheva, seven, compare with six and seven.
  8. 34:52At first, he was at the lowest point. Persecuted, hunted, almost killed. And later, he rose
  9. 40:00Because the aleph, symbolizing God, says to the wealthy person represented by the bet, "Go out
  10. 45:41Rashi, who interprets the verse, "'A man's wealth is the ransom of his soul, but the

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