The Marriage Seminar #1: Love is the Glue - Rabbi Benzion Shafier

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[Music] in this country in 1901 the divorce rate was approximately 6% currently in this country the divorce rate is 50% hovering higher or lower and even though that's the secular world and obviously the Froome world has a very different environment and barakah Shem a different world we live in but even in the from world the divorce rate is rising at alarming rates and I'd like to ask the obvious question our Boehm young quorum you serious a blonde 40 days before person was born Hashem says be toshi-low Neela plenty the daughter of so-and-so to so-and-so a shams job is to me sobbing zebu King so the question is what's happening it used to be that a person would get married and the expectation was they would marry the person and remained married the question is what happened why is it that no longer is it an assumption that people were remain married to that person what has occurred and I'll sort of be funny about this I'll give you two choices maybe you'll tell me a sham is no longer so good at doing what a sham does maybe shams no longer able to find the matches and I think that's pretty silly and I think the reality is something very very different and that reality is that people no longer act as they used to people no longer understand marriage people no longer understand

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10. 43:45gender differences in understanding the various different things that one and the other each spouse does…

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