Rabbi Avraham Gaon Finding your Soulmate

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Avraham Gaon’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

be able to cover it in one time we try to do our best years ago I'll start with a little story years ago there was a great rabbi here in the United States name was rabbi palm and one time one of his students came to him hisses to him rabbi what kind of a girl should I look for a wife what up what I should be for a wife what up what I should be looking for so a thumb left and he said imagine you are in a grand central and somebody is coming to you sister you excuse me sir what kind of train which train should i pick which train should i go on with train should I board it's it's a crazy question because you need to know first of all where you want to go the same thing here in order to know go the same thing here in order to know where your life is head hey you your life is heading where are you what's your direction in life you need to sit down and think about it yourself and before you going to pick up a mate soul mate you really didn't need to decide where exactly i'm going with my life what is it that I'm looking in my life and only then I can find a soul mate or spouse that would help me become a partner to reach this goal a partner

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