Orchos Chaim of the Rosh #122-123 Don't Get Angry at Your Wife, Draw Her Close

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Daniel Glatstein’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

left hand bring her close with your right hand without delay now what is the rush saying don't get angry at your wife we already know you can't get angry at anybody and always vote the rash so what's the rush adding clearly he's adding there's a special azhara to be anger to get angry at one's wife because it's more frequent and she is mashup to you and we're concerned maybe therefore you'll be mocked it with her and you'll come to anger you know we find that rakhilimenu she said after joseph was born asaf alaykum god has gathered in my shame rashi says so long as the wife doesn't have a son there's no one to put the blame on once she has a son she could put the blame on him who broke the cli uh your son who ate the figs your son so we see even in the house of abraham yitzhak and yaakov there was a shash maybe they'll come to hakpada even a small hakpada and that could cause a lack of shalom bias and therefore the rakhal said ah barak hashem i don't know i'm not subject to that anymore now this idea that if you pushed away your wife with her your left hand you should bring her close with your right hand comes from the martin said zayn where the gemara says tanya rubs are a child and a woman you should push them with their their left hand and bring them close with the right hand by the way uh it was it's been suggested by rip sim kawasa men if you push stone to your left hand and bring them close with the right hand you turn them around you turn them into a different person but anyway rashi says a woman heard she's daiton kala

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1. 0:31left hand bring her close with your right hand without delay now what is the rush…
2. 1:01maybe therefore you'll be mocked it with her and you'll come to anger you know we…
3. 2:04are a child and a woman you should push them with their their left hand and…
4. 3:04where the person feels that the bringing close is more than the casting away and that's…
5. 4:05with two hands but you need some kind of confluence so this is a special admonition…
6. 5:08statement for a moment where the ross said you need to bring her close without delay…
7. 5:38would be any lack of shalom bias in the house of yaakov and rachel then what…
8. 6:38questions you know how to disparage anybody you can't shame anybody and obviously if you need…
9. 7:41stays the daracha torah is to properly by properly honoring her in fact that's how the…
10. 8:44but if your wife's doing something improper you have to um you have to steer her…

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