The Do's & Don't with Mr. Charlie Harary

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The opening of this shiur, in Charlie Harary’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

the do's and don'ts of you come available I think that it's really hard for someone to have a surefire list of things to say and not to say when you're paying a sugar call but there's one approach that I've been taught and then I think that if we think about really changes the way we walk into a Shiva you know in life everything that we do really comes down to I think two different concepts either giving or taking at every moment we're giving or taking we are sharing or we're giving or taking we are sharing or we're looking for ourselves we're looking for a complement we're trying to get something or we're looking to help somebody else and at the end of the day of course is a year we believe that our job in life is to be a no same it's supposed to emulate Hashem mahu a FATA and the Kurdish bro who is the ultimate ultimate nossing and so the extent to which we are more of a no sane where givers we're connected to who we really are now this happens a lot in life now where it gets complicated is when we give in order to take when we

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1. 0:00the do's and don'ts of you come available I think that it's really hard for someone…
2. 4:10exhausted from their story right next person comes in right to shift right the line leaves…
3. 8:19a platform if you will to the oven what are the things that one should say…
4. 12:30the availing that in the life that there does their loved ones had there was the…
5. 16:39the last natt here is a downplay of the pain that they're going through and to…
6. 20:44I think that if we don't allow them to release breathe we'll go right to the…
7. 24:52their memory sadness doesn't equal remembering you can remember somebody just as easily when you're happy…
8. 29:01but here's the truth we're not what we do we're not even our name that's physical…
9. 33:06coffee you know cookie and so you'll be drinking a cup of coffee and you'll have…
10. 37:15is sick and arts you sir all what who's listening what is it just words no…

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