Shalom Bayit Marriage Workshop with Rabbi Benzion Shafier

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shay Tahan’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] everybody long time no see really thank you so much for coming out H first and foremost we really have a lot of to the people that help put this together it does not as seamlessly as it looks like it comes together takes a lot of effort want to also thank of hear by schaer I want to say one remark regarding what we're all here for which your presence shows how much you invest in the idea of schom you understand it already and if you haven't heard this statement that I'm about to make now already then maybe it'll just underscore what we're all really feeling already the importance of schom in our lives we all live by the rulings of the ARA most of those teachings came to us through a student V says something shocking maybe even alarming he says that an individual's midot an individual's character is judged in shim by the way in which he interacts with his wife and he says a person can be about a person can do said give contribute towards the community in so many ways and he probably thinks in the back of his mind after 120 years I'm okay but is telling us that the measure the measuring stick the yard stick by which we will be judged is the relationship the manner in which we related to our spouses just a thought as we all lean in as I mentioned we all understand the importance of this that's why you're here perhaps one thing I can contribute just from a a personal note is if you're not yet familiar with ra who is at this

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1. 0:00[Music] everybody long time no see really thank you so much for coming out H first…
2. 6:31[Applause] okay so here's what we're going to do this evening we're going to discuss some…
3. 12:45they ask that question because he was going to respond she's in the oal she's in…
4. 19:08work it out if there's a bond of love if there's a connection if we're in…
5. 25:31so so expensive who could afford it who has a time I have an answer because…
6. 31:50their hair down it's okay to let your hair down but not if it means being…
7. 38:17the fact that she was experiencing something very real at that moment when she was up…
8. 44:33important books and here's what she say she says if you listen to why women talk…
9. 50:52mistake number four is this mistake forgetting I talk me some to women let's move over…
10. 57:09husband he's this and he's that is this and I didn't take me long to realize…

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