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Kinyan 35: Ohev Es HaTochachos

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Rabbi Asher Weiss

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generally people don't like to hear criticism and when you see a person doing something which you should not be doing you think twice you think 10 times should i say something i don't want to hurt his feelings and i definitely don't want him to be angry at me we all want friends not enemies and we're decent people so we really and we're decent people so we really don't want to hurt others feelings but a true bentaira and one that wants to be a troop entirely one of the kenyans what we call constructive criticism that you need not only to appreciate not only to be willing to hear not only to be willing to hear but you should love to hocker and as a result you should love the person giving you the project says in this lay don't criticize alates don't criticize don't criticize a rake and ignoramus because yes you won't like it i'll hate you for it but if it's and he knows how important criticism is sometimes then he will just love you more for it so that's a posiken mishla ho ho

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  1. 0:11generally people don't like to hear criticism and when you see a person doing something which…
  2. 0:42and we're decent people so we really don't want to hurt others feelings but a true…
  3. 1:12not only to be willing to hear but you should love to hocker and as a…
  4. 1:43don't criticize a rake and ignoramus because yes you won't like it i'll hate you for…
  5. 2:34foreign step forward and they say if a person claims to love you…
  6. 3:05if a person claims to love you does he ever give you criticism if he doesn't…
  7. 3:43criticism brings harmony not the opposite if it is constructive criticism and the person you criticize…
  8. 4:16and mossad is so essential and that is why we learn there are many things that…
  9. 4:49which is the one most important thing for us to choose of the many positive traits…
  10. 5:23positive and constructive criticism have a beautiful…

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