Rabbi Naftali Silberberg | Rethinking Regret: Addressing Healthy and Unhealthy Guilt

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good evening everyone today we're going to be doing lesson three of this course so for you we'll begin on page 86 because your books are great if not there are books in the background there if anyone wants and today's today's lesson is going to be based on the last part of Planet which is the place in Tanya with Opera talks about guilt so the larger topic of guilt automatically we associate with struva automatically we associate with struva right now that's what I were middle of doing in uh in Tanya is but although the what we'll be talking about today does touch upon true but somewhatrapy here is not trying to explain what shoba is um the larger topic over here as we discussed in the last two weeks is negative emotions emotions that drain us emotions that are difficult and I guess I would say that one of the most common negative emotions is guilt that common negative emotions is guilt that we feel and we already know that in order to serve Hashem was simcha and that that was seen to preclude feeling guilt because if you're feeling guilty then you're not uh then you're way down by negative emotion so we're going to start with the questions for discussion on page 87. how do we differentiate between healthy and unhealthy remorse and guilt I think that we all intuitively know

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1. 0:00good evening everyone today we're going to be doing lesson three of this course so for…
2. 5:08so the very statement even if there wasn't a statement I'm very obvious even if there…
3. 10:48traits no one compels dictates or leads us towards any of these paths rather we have…
4. 17:07family again if you did everything right and obviously we can't know everything about everyone guilt…
5. 22:12we're going with a lot of work on page 103. I'll put up this has this…
6. 27:52text 11 without the river says that you should know that if you're involved in Commerce…
7. 33:45that later now the regret is going to be real but if you are the same…
8. 38:54we always control our guilt our guilt never controls us if our guilt controls us that's…
9. 44:39how did I do this how did I disappointed how did I break my relationship with…
10. 50:16about Hashem it's that my measuring stick to measure whether I am accomplished or not is…

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