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Being Picky

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Rabbi Tomer Zino

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I know a lot of those people. I'm not saying all of them are like that. I know a lot of 30-year-olds who are still not married and it's because they're still picky. They're still picky. They think I deserve, I deserve, I deserve, I deserve. And uh listen, the Steipler Gaon said, "When you're looking 2 weeks before Sukkot, for a trog, so you can be picky, you know, you have time. But uh when the hug is in the evening and you have 2 hours till hug, you can't be picky no more." And he's saying, "You just choose one already, you know, that's it." So so it's kosher, it works, buy it, that's it. There's no room to "Ah, this one, which one's better? I don't know, I don't know." So the but the person who says, "But I deserve the

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