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Pursuit to Bettering Our Lives with Rabbi Moshe Meir Weiss

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Rabbi Shay Tahan

Rabbi Moshe Meir Weiss discusses improving lives and shares insights from his work with the Chazaq Organization.

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A good Shabbos everyone. A royal welcome. Thank you for giving your Motzei Shabbos to the pursuit of bettering our lives and learning Torah Hashem. We begin with the Asher of Welcher with appreciation to Zak for making this year possible and to all of you for coming. We're running properly. Amen. For those that know me the subject of Shalom Bayis is my favorite topic to talk about. Because there's no single topic that allows me with the help of Hashem to touch the lives of so many people through its discussion. And in every facet of your life. Because the way we are at home first of all rewards us with the Shechinah if we live correctly. And when you have the Shechinah you have everything. When we live successfully then our children will learn how to live successfully. There's no better way than teaching by example. When we have Shalom Bayis everything is so much sweeter. So I want to start by posing a question. How do you achieve a special marriage? You know, those marriages where you see the couples looking at each other in their special way where couples actually enjoy spending time with one another where they're actually talking together where you could hear them talking nicely to each other. You know, how do you get there? So, let me tell you something. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Such a marriage is absolutely abnormal. It's abnormal. It's not normal. So, you could quote me on this. To have a marriage where you're happy to be with one another where you talk nicely to one another, you look forward to each other it's not normal. Because you know it's the same old wife. It's the same old husband. There's nothing exciting about that. You know, we want everything new. Person has a car

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  1. 0:07A good Shabbos everyone. A royal welcome. Thank you for giving your Motzei Shabbos to the
  2. 6:03some people they they they were smarter than me. They chose wisely. That's very wrong thinking.
  3. 12:30I'm sorry I'm not dressed well enough for such a wonderful girl, but I don't have
  4. 18:57Rashi says mibiyerishain. She had the child from the first time. Now, why do we have
  5. 25:22"How could you tell if a person has a good character?" So, knowing that Rabbeinu Bachya
  6. 31:43done. Some people just they're Rosh Yeshiva, they're a Rav, they're Maggid Shiur, they're Rava was
  7. 38:39There's another reason why we don't do different. Because if we do different, it's admitting that
  8. 45:07BUT BUT IT IT TAKES A SECOND. You have to be willing to listen. You have
  9. 51:34Or maybe you could show me what I can move around. And I'm sorry I messed
  10. 57:50the last one to get married, my Yocheved, it was a tearful Hanukkah. She was saying,

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