The Marriage Seminar #7: Proper Communication - Who's the Boss? - Rabbi Benzion Shafier

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[Music] okay it's 6:30 at night time comes home from a long day at work and he walks into the apartment plumps himself down on the couch and takes out the New York Times that's reading it okay that will make it better he takes unwish nice okay takes it rich nineties and starts to learn English next okay good meantime his wife is in the kitchen and she's cooking and she's cooking and as the steam from the pot Rises the steam from her ear rises as well why because she sing to herself I don't believe this guy's gonna sit there the three kids are ripping apart Department they're destroying the place I'm slaving away and he's just gonna sit there he's just gonna sit not do anything he's gonna sit there and as the steam rises her in her steam rises and it gets hotter and hotter until finally she's had it she puts down the towel walks into the living room points a finger at him and says alright mister up off that couch you're either cooking dinner or you taking care of the kids but you are not sitting there any longer so he dutifully obeys gets up takes care of the kids and lo and behold they put the kids to bed after everything is fine and well now folks was she correct so most women would say she's heroic she's correct she deserves a medal finally stands up and says what's right and I think everybody

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1. 0:01[Music] okay it's 6:30 at night time comes home from a long day at work and…
2. 1:04off that couch you're either cooking dinner or you taking care of the kids but you…
3. 2:37couch you either cook dinner or making mister for two hours it's been playing in his…
4. 4:10boss who is don't answer that lap please ladies it's gonna be very ugly no don't…
5. 5:41following what do you think about what do you think about you see if no one's…
6. 7:13plastic soda how you know it still applies that you know supplies anyway she decided that…
7. 8:15of this but no one becomes the autocrat to take over to take charge of it…
8. 9:48you're going to make a large request let's make it very simple let's imagine for a…
9. 11:18good feels a little dangerous and I said in that office really it's not like cigarettes…
10. 12:50significantly effective gentlemen as well and that's how you approach a very big question you're coming…

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