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Dangerous Shidduchim — R Yehudah HaChasid Part 2 03 06 2026

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Rabbi Yoel Plutchok

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Okay. So, it's a little bit of like open tabs. We started to we talked about last week and we maybe briefly mentioned once or twice something about names in the past week or two. So, this will just like uh tie together some loose ends of of the names in. Now, we mentioned last week we we gave a whole introduction. We spoke about and all the different of the about how seriously to take meaning that's the wrong way to say it. Of course, we take seriously and Of course, we take seriously and is one of the are from the primary you know links in the but meaning that in particular the things that he writes that are do we have to actually be cautious of those are they only for his children and his grandchildren and we spoke like we said we said we said now the shila that I want to talk about today is one of the most adhered to one of the it's one that's taken relatively seriously you know from from all them I want to just frame it a little bit in a want to just frame it a little bit in a in a in a way um in the in the back of the it's like the first one when he started putting them out on now has I don't know 20 30 on whatever they are they're all the same style more or less but the first one he has to was the first one it was two volumes um it was a bit of like a new a new genre it introduced something new and one of the favorite things that exilstein has that he likes to do is he likes to take let's say a story of something good happening

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  1. 0:00Okay. So, it's a little bit of like open tabs. We started to we talked about
  2. 2:03give him instructions and I'm able to cross him like that. I don't want you to
  3. 4:05they they uh they they uh gave him some etc. Now the point is and he
  4. 6:07them is literally what I'm saying and I'll show you all the different places that say
  5. 8:08he says to he says the reasons that I'm about to tell you it's foolhardy to
  6. 10:12the mubalum so that uh we're not going to talk about tonight that we're not going
  7. 12:20the say like this as I'm testifying about myself two different stories one case of and
  8. 14:23brings down a story where somebody came to ask the could do one of the said
  9. 16:25seriously because it's brought down in the brought down from there's a split being dismissive of
  10. 18:28anymore but but their mak 20. Anyone's coming after 20 it's already time to get married

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