Daily Boost Ep.66: The Elements of Resilience

What’s said in this shiur

The opening of this shiur, in Charlie Harary’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

whether in the new in the northeast is phenomenal 80 degrees in warm wherever you are I hope you're healthy and safe I know that surge is happening but hopefully we're getting past it we have that sense now that people are ready moving past it and I want to make sure that all of us as we start I hope I hope emerging from this we don't emerge from this in a way that we walked in we're growing we're changing one of the things I've been speaking about a lot is idea of needs significance connection how of needs significance connection how wouldn't we go after these needs in the proper way we end up getting a real autonomy an autonomy that is long-lasting I know timing that enables us to have real relationships with people use a lot of times with people where they achieve a certain level of success in one area let's say somebody was really pretty in school or someone was a great athlete or someone was really smart and they have a group of people around in which they've achieved their significance they were achieved their significance they were popular there's a group of people in which they feel the most successful financially or in careers or whatever it is and then as they get older things change people change it's time for new friends it's time to expand out and it's hard because we've conditioned ourselves to a significance that is based on the attention of others and when I branch out to other people when I go to new environments and I have to make a move I may not get that attention so you see

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1. 0:00whether in the new in the northeast is phenomenal 80 degrees in warm wherever you are…
2. 2:08happen to how people think that I am important if you get into that world we're…
3. 4:12and dad are like okay but I need you to like me no we want to…
4. 6:14you can share this with in that your your your your 50 yards ahead of the…
5. 8:15how do I not talk bad about her right you see like it was it was…
6. 10:20and we never think this way it's always someone's fault until we stop and we allow…
7. 12:27resilience shaky there's no ability to analyze themselves there's no ability to stare at their problems…
8. 14:30feel resilient the people that are like it's gonna be amazing it's gonna be amazing it's…
9. 16:35but this concept of searching for truth that we've been speaking about requires us to build…
10. 18:37like you know a tangled group of wires it's gonna take a long time but it…

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